We’re walking to the graveyard for the first time since my
grandparents passed away. My feet are sweating, my hands are sweating. The lump
in my throat is making me feel vulnerable; one hug and I might collapse. I’m
looking and looking and looking for the graves. I can’t remember where they
are.
Avalon is skipping a long through the graves; her dress
stands out from all the gray.
I tell her, “Don’t step on the gravestones”. A long
conversation ensues about why. She runs to the trail. She stops. “Mom, look!!!”
Lying on the unforgiving pavement is a Monarch butterfly. Her intricately
swirled fairy wings are perfectly still. Avalon’s blue eyes are wide with
fascination and shock. “Mom, why did she die?”
On the hill there are two beautiful and ancient ladies. I
name them Ethel and Alice. Ethel is supporting Alice. Alice has silvery long
hair. They pause at a grave, holding each other, smiling, laughing. I imagine
what they are saying. I bet it starts with “remember when”…. They slowly
shuffle together to another grave. They pause again. I imagine their tears on a
journey, falling down through the patterns of wrinkles.
I still can’t find the gravestones.
I look up to see the outlines of my mom and dad. I try to decide
if this is a miracle or a consequence of living in a very small city. They
point and shout to me, “Grandma and Grandpa are over there!”
Finally, we’ve made it to the hardest part. Avalon is
unimpressed, but imaginative of Grandma and Grandpa’s life in heaven. The gray
stones can’t tell us anything.
Ethel and Alice have traveled back and forth from their two
grave spots several times. It’s time to go.